New Year, Realistic Goals
How to Choose Health Goals You’ll Actually Stick With

Every January, I see the same pattern—and I’m guilty of it too: we start motivated, set a million goals, track everything, and then life happens.
If you’re an all-or-nothing person (hi, same), it’s easy to go from “I’m doing all the things” to “welp… I missed a day, so I guess I’m done.” And that’s exactly why most goals don’t stick.
This year, let’s do it differently: pick fewer goals, measure the right things, build a contingency plan for your weak spots, and give yourself grace—without letting grace turn into excuses. Here’s a simple, realistic way to set health goals that actually last!
Step 1: Pick one “keystone” goal (not five)
A keystone goal is the one habit that makes other habits easier. Instead of: “Lose 20 pounds, fix my hormones, sleep 8 hours, stop sugar, work out 6 days/week." Try: “Walk 20 minutes after dinner 5 days/week” or “Protein at breakfast every day” or "Lights out by 10:30 pm on weeknights." When you choose one keystone goal, you reduce decision fatigue and build momentum.
Step 2: Make it measurable and small enough to win
A good goal is specific and realistic. Use this format: I will do [habit] for [time/amount] on [days].
Examples:
- “I will strength train for 20 minutes on Monday/Wednesday/Friday.”
- “I will drink 80 oz of water on weekdays.”
- “I will eat 25–35g protein at breakfast 5 days/week.”
If you’re thinking “that’s too easy,” good. Easy goals get repeated. Repetition is what changes your biology! Then you can always add on, but keep it simple and small.
Step 3: Track the right thing (hint: not the scale every day)
Tracking should create awareness, not anxiety. If you're the kind of person that knows you will get obsessive and beat yourself up over a missed metric, don't track it! If the scale is triggering or discouraging, we can use better markers. Pick one primary metric and one secondary metric.
Primary metric ideas:
- Energy (1–10)
- Sleep quality (1–10)
- Steps/day
- Protein/day
- Strength workouts/week
Secondary metric ideas:
- Waist measurement (every 2–4 weeks)
- Resting heart rate
- Blood pressure
- Lab markers (every few months, depending on your plan)
Step 4: Build your “when life happens” plan
This is the secret sauce. Ask yourself: What usually knocks me off track? What’s my minimum plan when I’m stressed, traveling, or slammed at work? This is where I have failed many times. If I can't get a work out in for the day, I could have at least moved my body with a walk or stretching. If we had a really unhealthy meal, it could throw me off for the rest of the week. Have your back-up plans ready so it's autopilot for you when life happens.
Examples of a minimum plan:
- If I can’t work out, I’ll do a 10-minute walk.
- If I can’t meal prep, I’ll prioritize protein + produce.
- If sleep is rough, I’ll keep the same wake time and get morning light.
Contingency plans work best when you’re honest about your weaknesses. Sometimes you’ll have to shift gears for a season—and that’s okay. Give yourself grace… but don’t give yourself an out.
Step 5: Support your goals with the right labs (especially if you feel “off”)
Sometimes goals feel impossible because your body is fighting you. If you’re dealing with fatigue, brain fog, weight changes, mood shifts, poor sleep, or low motivation, it may be time to look deeper. You deserve a plan that matches your biology. Depending on your symptoms and history, we may consider:
- Thyroid markers beyond TSH (free T4, free T3, antibodies)
- Iron/ferritin, B12, vitamin D
- Sex hormones (testosterone, estradiol, progesterone)
- Metabolic markers (glucose, insulin, A1c, lipids)
- Genetics like how you methylate!
A simple weekly check-in (5 minutes)
Once a week, answer these three questions:
- What went well?
- What got in the way?
- What’s one small adjustment I can make this week?
That’s it. Small adjustments compound.
Great health + wellness goals for 2026 (and how I can help)
If you’re not sure what to focus on, here are some goals that make a big difference—without requiring perfection.
- Improve energy (so you actually feel like yourself)
- Goal ideas: consistent sleep/wake times, morning light, strength training 2–3x/week, hydration, balanced blood sugar.
- How I can help: comprehensive labs + a personalized plan that may include nutrition strategy, supplements, peptides, thyroid optimization, and/or hormone support (when appropriate).
2. Balance hormones (women + men)
- Goal ideas: address low libido, mood changes, sleep disruption, hot flashes, cycle changes, low testosterone symptoms, or “I don’t feel like me.”
- How I can help: symptom-based consults + targeted labs + individualized BHRT options (pellets, injections, creams/patches/oral) and follow-up that actually tracks how you feel.
3. Support metabolic health and healthy weight
- Goal ideas: build muscle, improve insulin sensitivity, reduce cravings, improve body composition.
- How I can help: medical weight loss programs (semaglutide/tirzepatide when appropriate), nutrition coaching support, and pairing weight loss with hormone and thyroid optimization when needed.
4. Improve sleep and recovery
- Goal ideas: consistent bedtime, caffeine cutoff, reduce alcohol, magnesium-rich foods, stress regulation.
- How I can help: deeper root-cause workups, sleep-support protocols, and (coming soon) take-home sleep studies.
5. Improve gut health (because it affects everything)
- Goal ideas: more fiber + protein, reduce ultra-processed foods, identify triggers, consistent meals.
- How I can help: functional medicine approach and (coming soon) stool studies to personalize your plan.
6. Feel better mentally (mood, anxiety, resilience)
- Goal ideas: build a realistic routine, prioritize recovery, reduce burnout, ask for help sooner.
- How I can help: thoughtful screening and treatment options, including ketamine therapy (when appropriate), plus hormone/thyroid/nutrient optimization that can strongly impact mood.
Ready to make 2026 your healthiest year (without burnout)? If you want help choosing the right goal, building a realistic plan, and checking the right labs, we can do that together.
Welcome to 2026!
Doc Nico Your Wellness & Hormones Specialist

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